Friend Issues!

Hey Y'all. So I have a butt load of friend issues so I thought why not start a message board about it! My friend issue is that I have a friend-ish person in my class and she tell me to or not to do things and act like my mom sometimes. So today when I was looking at her she said "Amelie, I know your eavsdropping.". So my friend M and I started this rules of life thing. 

1. If you look at someone your eavsdropping

2. If your quiet but moving your not ready

3. If your friend with someone of the opposite gender your a couple

We just made these up to make a joke of it but it hurts when N (the girl who's being mean to me) says "your eavsdropping". She also claims I "stole" her best friend. M started crying that N her best friend did't get that she had two best friends. N is also mean to me for no reason. Help anybody? -Amelie

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  • That sounds tough! Try to talk with N one-on-one and tell her how you feel. Sometimes people don't realize they're being mean until you talk with them about it.
  • I feel you! i have a friend who says i cant do this or that and i have to tell her evrey thing i do
  • I feel you. This sounds really hard. Maybe try to tell N how you feel. If that doesn't work, then maybe just try to stay away from that group. In the meantime, you can try to just reach out to new people. I also want to ask if your friend, M, is happy being in this friendship. If she isn't, then maybe she should stay away from this group as well. I am really hoping this gets better!
  • I went through something very similar to this a few years ago. Feel free to PM me anytime.
  • I am a very bad judgement when it comes to friends. Stand for what u think is right. Don't be friends with ( how do I word this appropriately) bad friends?
    • thank you!
  • Wow. That sounds difficult. I am sorry that I don’t have any advice right now, I will try and think of something to help.
    • ^^^^^I was dealing with some of the same problems. It’s done now, but I don’t really have any advice.
    • its ok
    • ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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